25th June 2026

Due to having a number of blogs and social media accounts I am never really sure where to up load any thing that I wish to share with the general public.

This is why you will probably ending up seeing the same posts, depending on how you chose to follow me on-line.

Due to my mental health, on going list of not just mental but also physically disabilities I have felt like over the past 12 months that I have lost how I am and what I would still like to achieve.

So now that it is a week before my next birthday I am going to try and achieve some of the goals that I set out of myself when I was under the age of 31.

This was when I became a mum for the first time and had to live my life putting my children’s needs first.

Now that they are getting older and more independent I am hope that myself and their dad will have room to cut the apron stings a little more; so that we both can have “me time.”

Because everyone no matter old you are needs some “me time.”

Fool Me Once, Shame on You; Fool Me Twice, Shame on Me.

 Right I am now going to have to be blunt over the past 12 months my life as been a living hell and today that is going to stop!

So if anyone wishes to see my the are going to have to book an appointment.

I am a full time single mum, home schooling my son with SEN need.

I have my own long standing illness and disabilities of also manage on a daily basis with the help and support of my appointee Not are carer.

In order for me to do this I have had to give up my other two children for everyone health and wellbeing.

I know that life will not run to a calender and that things can change in a heart beat.

But I can keep rearranging my life for time wasters.

If you want to know know some thing ask, Or goggle me. I know that the DWP, HMRC and local
Government/Governing bodies do this already.

But do not waste my time or your own.

I will say it again between the hours of 9.00 until 15.30 Monday to Friday I am home schooling!

I am unreachable between these hours and after 20.00.

Saturday and Sunday are my family days.

Mondays I can not meet on ever. (unless life and death!)

If you wish to contact me or arrange to see me then please do so in writing! Large text on white paper/ green paper black text only.

Ideally I need a minim of 24 hours notices to arrange child cover.

Personal I would prefer that you arranged to meet me upon two weeks in advance, so that child care is covered and I can rearrange my life.

I except email, post, text messages and phone calls.

But to not turn up later without contacting me (when safe to do so)
Ignore with messages.

If unable to make it please contact me at lest 2 hours before (if you can)

Waste my time.

I usually give people the 3 strikes rule before blocking you.

But just lately my tolerance for people is wearing thin.

What is it they say?

The saying, Fool Me Once, Shame on You; Fool Me Twice, Shame on Me.

Was first used in 1650 by politician Anthony Weldon. It’s a witty way to say that you should learn from someone’s tricks on you.

Plans for 2026 continue

 Over the pasr few years I have been helping my sister with her online art potfolio,  This is fue to her working full time of the NHS.

https://www.youtube.com/@AnnekaMarieArtandDesigns-gc3vn

What is real in 2026

 https://www.youtube.com/@katrinaslomczynski1672/playlists

RIGHT!

So for everine out their who is over the afe of 16. this may be of some use to you.

i have been trying to set up my own bussiness since the age of 16, I am noe 42 nut i always tell people that i am 45.

This is ptonanly due to me libing with EUPD, and nd wanting to feel wiser and older than i am.

i have affed a link to my you tue channel that is now becomne you tube channels after ten years of trying to work out how to use ou tube,

Game and followers to not happen over night unless you do something that shocks or descusts people.

Sp lets not go their.

Uoir most loual followers /stalkrts with follow you even id ou put ip a vedio of paint drting.

It is long, tiring and you never get a day off.

Also onve you post any thing online it is theirw doeever if you know where to look.

So please whatch what you post and think about how it might eddect you in the fiture.

Being a full time life model from the ahe of 16 (MUST NE 18 NY LAW).

Nothing about me can not be found and all it will do is put ip my google ratings and at times has veeb used to fescrifit me.

Dispite this i feel no fuilt or shame and i am anle to live weith the dessions that a younger version of me MADE.

Because that was who I was at the time and that is all i have to say on the matter.

What i personal have bot veen avle to live with or except is the atttitude of other and the way that they have tryed to use my past to descridit me.

There is always two sides to rvry story and are we not adcised to bekuce nothing that we hear and onl gald of what we see,?

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June 2026 Try again

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Over the years i have found working with other a real chalenge and if i have learnt any thing it is to look after your self and your family first.

I have tried a number of ways to get KABFA Designs off the gound and to become a vussiness that i can run on my own and mauve my childrfen ine day.

so now in Hune 2026, it back to the drawing boraf and take things day by day.

KABFA Designs in June 2026

 Good moring due to living with EUPD I am updating KABFA (Designs) Sadly i still do not have any where to work from ao until i do thia will be a hobby and not an offficail busioness.

over the past 10 yeards i have tryed to set but, but due to ill health and faving diisablity discrmination at every trun i try to make.

To say that becomeing self employed again is challenging, would be an understatment.


EUPD stands for Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder, a mental health condition also known as Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/law-and-courts/discrimination/discrimination-because-of-disability/what-counts-as-disability-discrimination/

IWhat is new for 2026?

 At this moment in time I have so many new things going on in my life BUT so much more to sort out,

I am still looking for some way for set up my small indepentant bussiness with out it effecting my SEN needs and my childrens too.

Being my sons full time carer and home schooling him, I keeep looking at ways to help him in the futre so that he can try and join the work force one day,

I would like him to beable to set exams and not have his life limited by is SEn needs and who society still view peole that "do not fit in."

So I have been looking at how to set up KABDA Designs with my children helping me and have been working on some Logos.

Logos that exsplain what KABFA Designs repersents and what we may sell.